I don't think we disagree on that at all. I think certain genres in the 80s (basically parts of what is called "new wave") sound great due to their embrace of technology, but I would much rather listen to a drum stick hit a drum head then listen to a processed drum signal that turns drums into something else entirely. Synths can be super cheesy. The Psychedelic Furs are a great example. Richard Butler had a classic punk snarl, and their early songs were raw and raunchy. They ended up sounding like Simply Red.
We have disagreed on the production of Nevermind, but I think my top 5 or 6 favorite albums are right in there with yours in terms of how they sound.
One exception I will make about 80s production is Peter Gabriel. He was always inventive and his sound changed dramatically between "Security" and "So" but I think they both sound incredible. "So" was considered a massive sell out to many die hard PG fans, but IMO it sounds great. The synthetic flute sound that open "Sledgehammer" is gorgeous IMO.